How to Reclaim Family Weekend Fun and Together Time
Running with out a break? Break away a bit. Find fun that'll appeal to parents and kids alike – and relish simple moments and surprises. Here's how!
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Maybe an ambling ride in the van isn't reality. (With a backseat of bouncy kids and tight gas budgets, does it really sound that great?)
Instead, try a shorter scenic route: "Pack up and go for a hike," suggests Denise Semion, chief communications officer for the 13 local Huron-Clinton Metroparks. "That's your easiest, most economical winter retreat."
Entry is $5 a car. And the trails, most regularly cleared of ice and snow, offer fresh angles, from critter tracks to chickadee chirps. "You're seeing a whole new scene of colors, sights and sounds that help reawaken your senses," Semion says.
It's also a chance to try something new together. Like sledding or ice fishing. Or even cross-country ski rental, available at select Metroparks for an added fee.
Besides strengthening bodies, physical activity builds bonds. Metro Detroit mom Leslie Blackburn and her daughter Hannah, 10, of Dearborn, prefer trapezes and aerial silks. They occasionally attend circus arts classes at Detroit Flyhouse, where Leslie's also taught.
Personally, Leslie says, the activity has helped push her limits and buck barriers – "like the fear of turning upside-down." Now, "I love being able to share it with Hannah. I like that it helps her grow and learn and heal, too."
And share plenty of smiles in the process – whether at practice or closer to home, where they also bike, jump rope and even hula-hoop.
Take a deep breath – literally. Blackburn, who's a certified yoga instructor, says even 3-year-olds can take five to 10 slow breaths. "It's amazing the focus that happens," she says.
That can help set the tone for family time. Or become it. Leslie recalls cozying up with her daughter to read independently. "It was cool. We could just share in that space." Hannah enjoyed it, as well: "It made me feel happy. What I liked about it was that I was with her – and I was reading a really good book."
Seize the power of spontaneity, too. Karey Hansen's family has relatives that live close by. A random, "what are you up to?" phone call can quickly turn into an impromptu, order-a-pizza-style gathering at someone's house.
"Those are always the most fulfilling," she says. "It's not this big party or holiday." It's not a major production over at the Melis house, either.
In fact, one of the family's favorite hangouts is the Mall at Partridge Creek in Clinton Township, not far from home. They'll snag a Friday-night discount flick at the MJR. Or they'll stroll past the big faux fireplace, grab ice cream and meet other shoppers' dogs at this pet-friendly spot.
"It just gives us an opportunity to be together as a family," Lorri Melis says. "You can get through another week, seeing how happy and excited they are."
And she hopes it's a lesson her kids will carry with them and pass on.
Allow moments to sneak up on you, too. Like they do when the Hansens leaf through books and magazines together at the dinner table – another little tradition.
Inevitably, tidbits come out. Someone might be chatting about a sale in a circular one minute; the next, Clara might share something about her school day.
"I find that if you're not trying really hard to have a conversation, they come more naturally," says Hansen.
At Kensington Metropark, Semion once saw a parent and two children sitting on a rock, transfixed by sandhill cranes just yards away. "Those kids were as still as statutes," she recalls. "Not only does it give you a chance to connect and recharge, but you're making memories.
"They're going to remember that more than perhaps a video game they played."
And, a few years back, it hit the Todd family on a deeper level, too, at the Heifer Global Village Experience. Part of the Howell Nature Center, this exhibit gives a glimpse of poverty in other countries. The experience resonated with her son Justin – who afterwards, in the car, told his mom how thankful he was to live in the United States.
"It let me know he really does appreciate the things he has, and he has compassion," Pamela Rhoades Todd says. "That really touched my heart. Those are the kind of children I want to raise."